Making Babies is a delightful book about mothering--not all flowers and grace--but a truthful and somewhat sardonic account about the joys and frustrations of new parenthood. Irish novelist Enright and her husband, Martin, a playwright, had been married eighteen years before having a child. In this book, she details the whole process, from the week she decided that they should try to have a child soon (when she was already pregnant) to the period after her second child was born.
Enright describes a photo of herself taking immediately after the birth. She looked “pragmatic and unsurprised,” but then later when they moved the baby to their room down the hall, she noticed that, “The child looks at the passing scene with alert pleasure…She is saturated with life, she is intensely alive. Her face is a little triangle and her eyes are shaped like leaves, and she looks out of them, liking the world.”
Contrast this with the chapter titled “Milk” where Enright discusses the absurdity of starting a new biological function in her late thirties. She also remarks that there’s no quicker way to clear a room than to begin breastfeeding there. It’s not the sight of the breast so much, as the loud raucous sounds coming from the infant. Read more »