Mahjong, Soybeans, and Sisters: Growing Up Chinese in Indiana

I'm a bit biased about how wonderful Auntie Yang's Great Soybean Picnic and Mahjong All Day Long are. Full disclosure: I'm from Illinois and I've lived in Indiana. And I'm moving to China in a month! (And I have 2 awesome sisters!) So, they're the perfect books for me, but they might just be great for you too. They are such a sweet celebration of  family traditions, so culturally specific and yet so universally heartwarming, that I can't help but want to share them with everyone I know! So let's travel from place to place, book by book.

First of all -- life in Indiana. Ginnie and Beth Lo are second-generation Chinese-Americans who grew up in West Lafayette, Indiana in the 1950s and 60s. Their parents came to study in American universities and stayed in the Midwest. Mahjong All Day Long is a simple story about watching relatives play Mahjong, a Chinese tile game somewhat like the card game gin rummy. The kids puzzle over this complicated, addictive game, and the funny behavior of their relatives as they play it all day and night. As the kids grow up, they join in the game, and in the end, find themselves teaching it to their own children. Mahjong celebrates the traditions and routines of family life, and the importance of making a home place that continues across countries and through generations.

Auntie Yang's Great Soybean Picnic takes place in the great state of Illinois. Growing up in Illinois is all about .... farmland. I always found soybeans a bit boring, but in this story, soybeans turn out to be the most exciting thing in Illinois! On a Sunday drive while visiting Auntie Yang, the family spots a soybean field. Auntie Yang convinces the farmer to let her take some soybeans home. The soybeans are cooked, salted, and ravenously nibbled out of their pods. Soybeans for human consumption were virtually unavailable in America in the fifties and sixties -- they were only grown for animal feed-- so finding soybeans in America was a great cause for celebration. Auntie Yang begins holding annual soybean picnics for the Chinese community in Chicago which help people feel less homesick and more connected - the picnic grows to include hundreds of families as the years go by. Food culture is such an important part of family life - when I go home for Christmas, I know exactly what delicious thing my dad is going to cook because he always cooks them - it's comforting and connecting. Soybean Picnic captures that sense of home and connection that food can bring to a family and to the larger community.

Finally, these books are great because they make unique use of a Chinese artistic style. Beth Lo paints scenes of Mahjong games, soybean fields, and yummy meals onto ceramic plates in a style that echoes centuries of Chinese ceramic art. It's not a style you see every day, and it makes the illustrations feel very personal and full of life. Since the books are written by one sister and illustrated by the other, it's yet another example of family working together to stay connected to their roots and carry them on into the future.

Mahjong, recommended for grades K-2, and Soybean Picnic, recommended for grades 1-4, are a great pair of tools for multicultural education -- teaching kids about Chinese games, food, language, and celebrations and sparking conversations about how different families have unique but relatable culture practices.  But more than that -- they're simply about the youthful realization of how family traditions can shape and guide our lives, even when we're far away from the people we love.

First of all -- life in Indiana. Ginnie and Beth Lo are second-generation Chinese-Americans who grew up in West Lafayette, Indiana in the 1950s and 60s. Their parents came to study in American universities and stayed in the Midwest. Mahjong All Day Long is a simple story about watching relatives play Mahjong, a Chinese tile game somewhat like the card game gin rummy. The kids puzzle over this complicated, addictive game, and the funny behavior of their relatives as they play it all day and night. As the kids grow up, they join in the game, and in the end, find themselves teaching it to their own children. Mahjong celebrates the traditions and routines of family life, and the importance of making a home place that continues across countries and through generations.

Auntie Yang's Great Soybean Picnic takes place in the great state of Illinois. Growing up in Illinois is all about .... farmland. I always found soybeans a bit boring, but in this story, soybeans turn out to be the most exciting thing in Illinois! On a Sunday drive while visiting Auntie Yang, the family spots a soybean field. Auntie Yang convinces the farmer to let her take some soybeans home. The soybeans are cooked, salted, and ravenously nibbled out of their pods. Soybeans for human consumption were virtually unavailable in America in the fifties and sixties -- they were only grown for animal feed-- so finding soybeans in America was a great cause for celebration. Auntie Yang begins holding annual soybean picnics for the Chinese community in Chicago which help people feel less homesick and more connected - the picnic grows to include hundreds of families as the years go by. Food culture is such an important part of family life - when I go home for Christmas, I know exactly what delicious thing my dad is going to cook because he always cooks them - it's comforting and connecting. Soybean Picnic captures that sense of home and connection that food can bring to a family and to the larger community.

Finally, these books are great because they make unique use of a Chinese artistic style. Beth Lo paints scenes of Mahjong games, soybean fields, and yummy meals onto ceramic plates in a style that echoes centuries of Chinese ceramic art. It's not a style you see every day, and it makes the illustrations feel very personal and full of life. Since the books are written by one sister and illustrated by the other, it's yet another example of family working together to stay connected to their roots and carry them on into the future.

Mahjong, recommended for grades K-2, and Soybean Picnic, recommended for grades 1-4, are a great pair of tools for multicultural education -- teaching kids about Chinese games, food, language, and celebrations and sparking conversations about how different families have unique but relatable culture practices.  But more than that -- they're simply about the youthful realization of how family traditions can shape and guide our lives, even when we're far away from the people we love.

Paris: a Love Story

The defining moment of Kati Marton's life occurred when she was six and the police came for her mother during the Hungarian Revolution. Her mother was imprisoned for a year, joining her father in prison. The authorities forced Marton and her sister to move in with strangers. Before that their lives had been blessed especially by Communist Hungary standards. Kati's parents had hired a French nanny and she learned to speak French as a child.

If you love Paris or even if you are just curious about life in the famous city, this memoir makes a good read. I wasn't familiar with Kati Marton's books or journalism - she worked as a foreign correspondent for ABC news and NPR - so this memoir made a nice introduction to her work.  

Marton was one of the first women to be hired as an international corresponded for ABC.  She met Peter Jennings in London before beginning her post to German in the 1970s. They fell in love and began an international romance that was mostly centered in Paris. But before that Kati had studied abroad in the city of light during the momentous year of 1968. She came from the States where her parents had emigrated after leaving prison.

Being fluent, Katy did well studying at the Sorbonne and even in the midst of the student uprisings she managed to pass her orals with flying colors as the city erupted in siege around her.

Not only does Kati tell of her relationship and marriage to Jennings but also she records her second marriage to Richard Holbrooke, the UN ambassador who died several years ago.  They also met in Paris after Kati had separated from Jennings.  Richard was eminently kind and proud to be married to a successful ambitious woman; apparently, Jennings was not. But unfortunately, Holbrooke died and left Katie alone after her children were grown.

So what did Kati do? Return to Paris, of course. And in the period of her grieving, she let the daily life of her favorite city flow around her: the children going to school in their uniforms, the visit to the bakery for the daily baguette, the small cinemas where people left earnestly debating old American films. She also walked the streets each day and discovered buildings or plagues that she'd never seen, many about her Jewish heritage that like the former Secretary of State, Madeleine Albright, she had not even know about until late in life.

Paris: a Love Story is a wonderful tribute to a great city. If you enjoy the coming of age section, you will certainly enjoy Alice Kaplan's Dreaming in French which describes the formative years of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Susan Sontag and Angela Davis.

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Three Day Road

I read a review of Three Day Road, Joseph Boyden's first novel of World War I, which mentions that this isn't necessarily an anti-war novel.   I had to read the sentence in that review several times to make sure I wasn't misreading or misunderstanding.  Does a war novel have to come out and specifically declare a stance? 

Really, Boyden includes anti-war elements right up to the breathtaking ending: senseless killings, madness, morphine addiction, shortsighted military leadership, dehumanization, and the day to day terror.  The characters in this book do seemingly impossible and horrible things in the name of combat.  Is that not stance enough?  Is it even important?

It is true that this book is about more than the descent into the hell of trench warfare.  It is a really poetic story of Xavier Bird and Elijah Whiskeyjack, Cree Indians who have grown up in Canada near Hudson Bay.  They have spent their childhood patiently hunting, skills which serve them well as snipers in some of the worst battles of World War I, including around Vimy Ridge and the Somme.  Maybe it needs to be said, but being good at killing moose to survive the winter is different than being good at killing Germans. Xavier and Elijah react differently, but equally destructively, to war.

The novel flashes back between their time spent in France and Belgium to Xavier's return from war where he is collected by his remaining relative, his aunt Niska.  The three day journey by canoe proves most difficult for Xavier who is crippled and addicted to morphine.  Niska's stories to distract Xavier pull the arc of the stories together and create a thoughtful and character driven war story versus one of all action.  This is not a page turner and can be rough going emotionally at times, but I thought it was wholly worth it in the end.

Two other excellent novels, Deafening by Frances Itani and The Stone Carvers by Jane Urquhart also pair World War I stories with strong female characters and life in rural Canada. 

The Man on the Third Floor

I journeyed back into the 1950s with this novel about a closeted gay editor. It's all here: the strong prejudice against homosexuality, the gender stereotyping, the cold war, the loyalty oaths, friend turning against friend and colleague against colleague. Some accused Communists leap out high-rise windows when their livelihoods are destroyed.

But McCarthyism is just a side issue in this intriguing novel - The Man on the Third Floor centers on a very successful editor who has a secret domestic life. When he and his wife, Phyllis, and their two young children move back to New York after the World War II years in Washington, Phyllis decides they can afford a house of their own. They finds a nice brownstone with three floors, the top of which was originally servant quarters. But Phyllis is a modern woman, college-educated who worked in radio and journalism until she had children, and she's not keen on having servants live with them. 

But one day, a very handsome man comes to measure Walter's office for new carpeting.  Although Walter has had only one sexual experience with another male in his life--he was raped at camp as a teenager--he immediately finds himself inviting Barry, the carpet man, to a bar. Almost immediately, he offers him a job as a driver despite the fact the family owns no car, and soon gives him a room on their third floor. For some reason, Phyllis agrees to both ideas.

So begins Walter's secret life that may not be as secret as he thinks. Bernays writes her narrative at a fast clip with lots of humor.  Faulkner, Mailer and other literary greats have walk-ons in the book. The author obviously knows a good deal about publishing - the good, the bad and the ugly. A subplot involves a friendship between Walter and another editor named Charlie McCann who is a competitor for the editor-in-chief job--Walter must choose between being loyal to him and keeping a very important client.

I really loved the character of Phyllis. She's smart and intelligent and refuses to be the quiet wife in the background. She talks politics at parties loudly and soon informs her husband that she will return to her career.

Samson spends a lot of time in his study reading manuscripts but occasionally sneaks up to the third floor to visit Barry.  The manuscripts seem to be very time-authentic. At one point Barry drives Walter to meet an important cardiologist who is writing a book about transplanting hearts from the dead to the living. Walter can't believe that such a thing is possible but if it is, he wants to sign that author on before a competing publishing house snags him

The story reaches a crisis point when the Samson daughter gets meningitis and almost dies. And though Walter has proven himself to be very selfish throughout the novel, where his daughter is concerned he is kind and loving.

For another novel that explores gay life in the 1950s, but this time in Paris rather than New York City, try James Baldwin's Giovanni's Room.

Flight Behavior

This novel is the first that I've read that tackles the problem of climate change head-on. An environmental tragedy in Mexico has forced most of the continent's monarch butterflies to find a new winter habitat. Flight Behavior also narrates the story of a young woman, Dellarobbia, who lives on a hard-scrabble farm in Appalachia. She's herded in by a strict mother-in-law, Hester, and even more so by the family's poverty. One day she decides to risk her marriage by having a tryst on the family's mountaintop with a telephone lineman named Jimmy.

After hiking up the mountain, Dellarobbia sees through the fog (despite her severe myopia) that the hills and trees are on fire: hundreds of monarch butterflies have nestled there. The young woman abandons her plan for an affair and returns to her mother-in-law's to pick up her two young kids, Preston and Cordelia.

Dellarobbia's history affects many pieces of the narrative: she's lost both her parents when she was young, got pregnant as a senior in high school, and married Cub to do "the right thing." Then she suffered a miscarriage and it took many years for her to have a child.

She was very smart in school but only had one decent teacher, her English teacher. She never went to college. Yet she defies her parents-in-law in their plans to log the mountain. Somehow the media finds out about the countless monarchs that have arrived in backwoods Tennessee and overnight Dellarobbia becomes a media sensation.

Kingsolver, who studied ecology on the graduate level, knows her science. She also knows the people of Appalachia, how they think, how they react to newcomers and experts. For in a matter of hours, a bunch of college kids, environmentalists, TV crews, and scientists descend upon their land.

The novel is also examines Dellarobbia's and Cub's marriage. Why is she always having crushes on other men? Why does she feel more like Cub's parent than his helpmate? Dellarobbia understands that Cub is a decent and kind man, yet intellectually she feels they have little connection. Complicating things is the arrival of Dr. Ovid, a monarch specialist who moves his study-trailer onto the field behind their house. He and his grads students soon transform the family barn (they pay decent rent) into a real laboratory where Dellarobbia soon learns how to check lipid levels of the butterflies, weigh them, count them scientifically, and record their "flight behavior." Suddenly, Dellarobbia has a career that fascinates her and a passion for her work.

Dellarobbia's best friend Dovey adds humor, and a hint of what Dellarobbia's life would have been like if she hadn't married. Then there's Reverend Billy whose sermons begin to center on the natural world and our responsibility to protect it as the logging deal gets closer to happening.

One of the closest relationships in the book is between Dellarobbia and her son Preston, who at age five has already decided to become a scientist. Together, they study an animal encyclopedia from 1952 and books on lambing because Hester has finally consented to let Dellarobbia help with that aspect of their farm.

The climate change theme never gets polemical though Kingsolver does incorporate a list of things that ordinary people can do to lower their carbon pollution. A fun fact about the book is that all of the female characters' names come from Kingsolver's own family.

Kingsolver really gets inside the heart and mind of this questing woman Dellarobbia--at a time of crises. In a wonderfully tense scene, Dellarobbia helps with a lamb birth, surprising herself with skills and dreams that she never knew she possessed.

Another lyrical novel about butterflies, entomologists, and the fragility of life is Sanctuary Line by Jane Urquhart. For a nonfiction account of the science behind climate change, read The Global Climate Reader edited by Bill Mckibben. 

 

Marilyn & Me: A Photographer's Memories

This slim memoir about one of the great stars of cinema is a quick and easy read. As you might guess, it provides some really fine images of the star that you might not have seen. Yet because of the book's small format, the photographs are not as big as you might hope.

The photographer, memoirist Lawrence Schiller, was only 23 years old when he first got the opportunity to photograph the actress. What I like especially in this book, is how he humanizes Marilyn, shows how uncertain she was, longing yet afraid to have a child; Schiller started his family over the couple year-span of the memoir and they often talked about his wife and family.

Marilyn & Me shows the actress to be incredibly smart.  Also, Schiller reveals her skills at conversation--when she was in the right mood--she could really draw people out. On the day she met the author, she discovered that he had blindness in one eye caused by a childhood accident. This fact she never forgot.

Schiller talks about how Marilyn often complained to him about being undervalued. She was acutely aware of how much other famous stars of the day, such as Frank Sinatra and Rosalind Russell, were paid. But, speaking of business people, Schiller reveals his own talent for securing lucrative deals for selling photographs especially those of Marilyn's. Also, Marilyn was incredibly gifted at quickly scanning hundreds of contact prints and selecting the best photos of herself. The ones she did not like she Xed off so they were unusable.

One day he chats with Robert Kennedy in Marilyn's backyard, and there's an intriguing description of her swimming toward Kennedy in a white bathing suit, that suggests closer ties with him, but Schiller does not broach any theories.  

News of her death reached Schiller while he is on vacation. He returned quickly to LA for some last shots of her house. He strongly believed that her death was not a purposeful suicide. Schiller conceded that she could have accidentally taken more pills by forgetting that she had imbibed some earlier.

This is a gentle memoir that you can read in an hour or two over the holiday season.

For a photo biography of another actress who also came to a tragic end, try the Grace Kelly Years: Princess of Monaco published in 2007 on the twenty-fifth anniversary of her death.

Animals in Winter: Preschool Science and Math

 

As any parent knows, young children are curious about the world. At the library, we explore a range of topics during Preschool Science and Math. When the weather turns cold, I turn to one of my favorite themes for preschool science: Animals in Winter. Here are some of the activities we did in December!

Dressed for Winter

Children were invited to "dress the animals for winter" by gluing cotton balls onto shapes of a hare, fox, and weasel. This activity helps to illustrate an animal adaptation, where brown fur changes to white so that the animals are better camouflaged in the snow.

Dressed for Winter

 

Fat? Feathers? Sweaters? Which is the Best Insulator?

Discussing the world in a scientific manner, helps children expand their vocabulary and build knowledge. This simple experiment provides a great introduction to the scientific method. First, children were asked to predict which insulator would best keep them warm: fat, feathers, or yarn. We indicated that prediction on a chart. Then, the children were asked to experiment and observe each insulator using prepared plastic bags lined with each insulator. The children placed their hand in the insulated bag and dunked it into a bowl of ice. Once they experimented with each, they evaluated whether their prediction was correct.

Fat Feathers Sweaters

 

Animal Tracks

On a table covered with white paper, we placed foam stencils of bear, dear, bird, and fox tracks. During the program, children created a jumble of tracks in the snow using the stencils and black markers. In order to create an opportunity for writing, children were encouraged to label the tracks.

 

Animal Tracks

Bird Feeder

This is a simple bird feeder that preschoolers can assemble fairly quickly -- and should stay useful if it is under cover. The bird feeder provides an opportunity for the children to continue their observation of animals in winter at home. The instructions for the feeder can be found at this blog.

 

Birdfeeder

Nurture your young child's fascination with the natural world! The more they know, the smarter they'll grow.

Acid, Projects, and Pit Bulls: Fiction by Paul Griffin

ImageThere are plenty of Young Adult books that portray the difficulties of being a teenager. Some are funny, some serious, and some are pretty dark. There's even a name for ones that focus on a specific issue -- the problem novel (you've got your teen pregnancy, drug abuse, suicide -- you name it). Some are great, but often times the more one topic takes center stage, the less realistic these books seem. It's never just one problem in real life, is it? For pretty much anyone at this age, times are hard all around. Paul Griffin writes about hard times.

Griffin burst onto the scene with Ten Mile River, a story about friendship and how it forces people to make difficult choices. It's about two homeless boys who've survived foster care and juvenile detention and are now living in an abandoned building. Their lives consist of stealing and avoiding the police, and watching each other's backs. A pretty girl brings a glint of hope into their lives, but they both find it difficult to imagine a better life while remaining loyal. The Orange Houses is another Griffin book dealing with the trials of inner-city life. A deaf girl, an illegal immigrant from Africa, and a damaged and addicted 18-year-old war veteran somehow manage to make life more bearable for each other, and in the end wind up paying a heavy price in a neighborhood suspicious of anyone not looking out for themselves.

One of Griffin's strong points is his ear for realistic dialog -- the conversations between his characters sound like something people would say in real life. Stay With Me is a great example, in which Griffin really captures the voices of a high-school dropout with a gift for rehabilitating abused dogs and a young woman with little prospect of escaping the same life her alcoholic mother is leading. It starts out as a love story, and it's both sweet and frank. When Mack's pit bull is killed and he ends up in jail for a fit of blind rage, the book deals with the pain of losing a loved one truthfully -- everything isn't ok, but just enough is to make life worth living.

Burning Blue is Griffin's most recent book, and the first to be set in a suburb. It's a classic mystery set-up: The most beautiful girl in school has acid thrown in her face, and a troubled outsider takes up the task of finding her assailant, exposing himself to danger from his schoolmates and the law. Jay is a very memorable character whose life is pretty much a mess, between an absent father and his illicit sideline of hacking. He's got trust issues (and rightfully so) and his struggle to protect (as he views it) Nicole without getting arrested or falling in love is fascinating. For her part, Nicole's nearly-impossible task of adjusting to a life where her looks define her in a negative light is just as interesting. The way Griffin takes damaged characters and allows them to realistically help or hurt each other really shines in this book. Any of these titles are great reads if you want something edgy and at the same time relatable. Check one out!

A Surrey State of Affairs

Because they seem so personal and individual, I'm attracted to novels written in blogs, diaries, and letters.  You really feel as though the writing comes directly from the blogger's heart. Ceci Radford's wonderful first novel A Surrey State of Affairs provides hundreds of delightful escapades while involving you with a cast of peculiar though mostly likeable characters.

Here's the plot in a nutshell: on the advice of Rupert, her IT consultant son, a middle-aged married suburbanite named Constance begins a blog where she tells of exciting and not-so-exciting events in her life. She doesn't work outside the home and has a surly eastern European housemaid named Natalie.  Constance's main hobbies are throwing dinner parties (including faux detective ones), visiting her Mom in a nursing home, and improving her skills as a competitive church bell ringer. (Who knew Brits even competed at this?)

Pretty soon, you discover that she is also heavily involved in matchmaking: the aforementioned son with the minister's daughter and also with a bell-ringer's child. Did anyone accidentally give out her son's address to a gentle stalker?

While Constance learns the nitty gritty of posting blogs, she entertains her husband's burly Russian guest who has nasty spats with Natalie, and then takes off with Sophie. Oh Sophie!  I failed to mention Constance's 18 year old surly daughter who is on her gap year counting fish in France but comes home often for non-talking visits with Mom.

Radford captures teenage angst and other family dynamics exceptionally well. Her entrance into Facebook is a hoot and before long the family travels to the Caribbean where she must bare skin. Here she enjoys revenge by emptying out a sunscreen bottle and transferring oil into it to get back at the obnoxious Russian.  The family also takes a ski trip to Switzerland where Constance suffers a humiliating and unnecessary mountain top rescue. Like any good English woman, she came prepared with her thermos of tea and biscuits so she could have endured the ice-fog for much longer.

The reader soon becomes aware of strong fissures in Constance's life; i.e. her marriage and her unrealistic expectations for her children, but it's all good fun.  There's a great South American travel episode also where Constance finally learns to do exactly what she wants to do rather than what's expected of her.

For books full of understated British humor about family relationships, try these two by Tessa Hadley, The Master Bedroom and her latest, a collection of stories called Married Love.

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